I read a blog of my friend’s the other day.
Since there are only a several days before the end of being freshmen, she wrote
about her reflection of her first year in the university. The passage was like
a wake-up call because it classified my confusion which has troubled me for a
long time.
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A sentence from my friend’s teacher was
profound. ”Are you pursuing success or
just feeling afraid of failure?” If people are pursuing success, they will
seize as many opportunities as they can. If people are afraid of failure, they
will push away every opportunities and wait for the so-called “best one”. For
me, maybe I am more like the latter one. I am not willing to try whatever I
cannot control. I am scared of failure because I am afraid of being frustrated,
losing face and disappointing my father. My friend said she could not accustom
to the new life due to the feeling of insecurity. And this is also what I was
worrying about. Anyway, after reading her blog, I feel clearer in mind.
After all no one can tell what the future
holds. And no one knows which way is the shortest to realizing our dream.
Whatever challenges we meet, at least we can learn from it. I think this
process is also the treasure we get from the university life. Hopefully I will
not lose my way.
Every one wants to be successful and afraid of failure,including me. Actually,it is every one'fear to be failed, especially during our senior 3. However, thanks to our fear, our life is exciting and every day is a challenge to fight with the failure.
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